MYHIGHERPATH BOOKS · ALEX LENERO

Learning to Love Yourself Again

Healing Rejection, Rebuilding Confidence, Overcoming Anxiety, and Starting Over With Faith

You do not have to become someone else to begin treating yourself with care.

If rejection, anxiety, self-doubt, or years of putting everyone else first have left you feeling lost, this book offers a grounded way forward. Discover how to rebuild self-respect, create healthier habits, and take the next small step toward a meaningful life.

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24 practical chapters · 30-day journey · Next 90-day plan

“Loving yourself is not pretending nothing needs work. It is learning to do that work without making hatred the tool.”

— From Learning to Love Yourself Again

WHAT YOU WILL EXPLORE

A more compassionate way to grow

Real change is not built through shame. Each chapter pairs thoughtful guidance with practical exercises you can adapt to your circumstances.

01

Heal from rejection

Separate painful experiences from your identity and move forward without letting someone else's decisions define your worth.

02

Rebuild your confidence

Learn to respond to self-criticism with honesty, self-respect, and small promises you can actually keep.

03

Face anxiety with care

Find practical ways to slow racing thoughts, make decisions, and seek support without treating anxiety as personal failure.

04

Create healthier boundaries

Care for others without abandoning your own needs, and stop treating approval as the price of belonging.

05

Make peace with where you are

Explore body image, setbacks, career changes, loneliness, and starting over later in life with realistic hope.

06

Move forward with faith

Connect reflection, gentle action, prayer, and Scripture without demanding perfection or instant answers.

MORE THAN A BOOK

Take the lessons into everyday life.

The book includes chapter-by-chapter practices, a 30-day self-care journey, and a 90-day planning exercise. Continue practicing online with the free MyHigherPath companion.

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ONE SMALL PRACTICE

Start where you are.

Write down one sentence you often use against yourself. Then rewrite it as a fair observation and one small, useful next step.

Today's reminder

Your goals can measure progress. They cannot measure your worth.

YOUR QUESTIONS, ANSWERED

Before you begin

Is this book only for people of faith?

The book weaves faith, prayer, and Scripture into its reflections, alongside practical exercises and everyday examples. Readers can engage with the activities at their own pace.

Does it include activities, not just reading?

Yes. Each of the 24 chapters includes a practical section with reflection prompts and actions. The book also includes a 30-day journey and guidance for planning your next 90 days.

Do I need to buy the book to use the online companion?

The MyHigherPath 30-day companion is a free member resource. You can create an account and explore the tools even if you have not purchased the book.

Where do I buy or read the book?

Use any Read on Amazon Kindle button on this page. Amazon handles availability, pricing, and checkout.

YOUR NEXT CHAPTER STARTS HERE

You are still worthy of attention, care, and hope.

Start rebuilding your relationship with yourself—one honest, practical step at a time.

By Alex Lenero · MyHigherPath

A FREE MOMENT OF SELF-REFLECTION

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